Hey everyone, it is day 17! We are about to wrap up another beautiful day in Denver, and I wanted to talk to you about the real F word. What is the real F word? Well, guys, the F word is fear. Unfortunately, too many people misunderstand fear.
I want to share with you something that came across my desk, so to speak, a few years ago, about fear. It said, look biologically, there is no place in our mind for the fear that many of us experience in the world. We go back to why was fear designed? There were only two fears that we were born with. We were born with the fear of loud noises and the fear of falling.
So any other fears that we experience in our day-to-day lives allows other people to set those up in our mind. There are inherent fears, like loud noises and the falling, that go into the category of could kill us. Right. So if we, in our mind, separate the fears of this side, that could kill us. Then the fears that we experience could grow us.
If you were on a motorcycle at night, in the canyon, while it was raining, and you were experiencing fear. Then we can put that fear in the this could kill me bucket. But starting a new business, that is not going to kill you. That would actually grow you.
You would put that in the other bucket. Right? This fear could grow me. Another example is asking someone out, right? If you see a person that you want to be with and you do not ask them out! That fear that you feel should not be in the this could kill me bucket, but the this could grow me bucket.
What about making an offer on a piece of real estate. Some people get so wrapped up in the I don’t want to do a deal yet. I want to watch another class or attend another workshop or get on another call. At the end of the day we have to face that fear, we have to start making offers. Again, that’s the kind of fear that could grow you.
I have been talking to a few people today about their fear and what they have done. I was at the office earlier today, talking to some pretty successful entrepreneurs, and I asked them about their fears.
One of the people shared with me that their biggest breakthrough around fear was when they were starting their new business, and what they understood is you do not have to do it all at once. You do one thing, do that one thing. As soon as you are done with that, the next step becomes apparent.
Imagine yourself sitting at the bottom of a staircase. At the very top of that staircase is the thing you want. Whether that is money, a relationship, a certain body, an accomplishment, a car, a house, whatever it is that you want, and the fear part of your brain thinks it is death. It is going to tell you we can not get on the stairs until we know every single step.
We have to know them all before we take step one. If we override that, and we know that when we take step one and accomplish that. Step two becomes completely obvious and clear about what we need to do. You need to take that step, and then step three becomes obvious, and then all of a sudden, you have this momentum, and the fear starts to go away.
Is this making sense? Let me know because too many dreams, inventions, songs, whatever it is that we’re looking at, don’t get created and brought into existence because we let fear think that we’re going to die from it.
What I want to leave you with is this. Separate the fears that can grow us versus fears that could kill us. All right, obviously, we do the ones that could grow us so we can live a more abundant lifestyle, have more experiences, make more friends, and try new things. Who knows? Focus on follow through. You never know what they’re going to say when you make your offers.
You do it afraid you feel the fear and do it anyway. That’s the difference between people who get what they want out of life and people who get by. In the fear you feel it will grow you. I got your back.
If you want some encouragement or if you want some help wondering what I would do. Hit me up. Let me know. I’m excited to stay connected with you guys. I will see you tomorrow. What are we going to do right now? We’re going to see The Alien. Alright guys, have a great night. We’ll see you soon.
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